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Don’t fill your brain with more than that, or you’ll just get confused.
Newly back in the dating scene and feeling a bit rusty? Today, we carry Internet technology in our pockets and use it for everything—from Googling directions to using it as payment at a grocery store.
A lot has changed since you once-upon-a-time put on (and then took off) a wedding band. Twenty years ago, Katie Couric said the Internet was "becoming really big now" and debated what the @ sign in email addresses meant.
If, however, all your friends hail from the age of dinosaur (such as yourself), here are some quick points to get you started.1.
Don't get alarmed if you don't actually speak to your date you meet her. Don't get upset if your date is adamant about you NOT picking her up.