Sometimes it takes several breakups for us to realize that the person we are breaking up with will never be able to offer us the loving, committed and fulfilling relationship that we are looking for.
We often end up entering into a relationship with them over and over again because we hope that this time everything will be better and he/she will be a different person now.
He is a typical alpha with a lot of …erm…challenges…but I loved him deeply and completely and was planning a future with him.It causes us real, physical suffering that can last weeks or months, and the lure of new romantic love is one of the strongest antidotes.We long for those butterfly feelings, the giddy excitement of feeling desire and being desirable. For some, a breakup may trigger powerful fears of never finding that special someone to build a life with.It may lead to feelings of urgency: if I wait too long, what if all the good ones are taken?With these very real fears in mind, I’ll bet some of you may be thinking (if we’re really being honest), is it really so bad in the first place to get back out there right away? But fulfilling it is unfortunately not a numbers game like applying for jobs.