The problem may simply lie in having too many options.
If these two start dating each other on honest terms (which Taurus will insist upon anyway) with a lot of good will, then they can be the missing link in each other’s life to unlock new personas within them.
She will be caring and deep, but also be prepared to show her selfish, manipulative side, wrapped in candy paper.
It can be hard to understand her position, because she will rarely show her uncontrolled emotions and passions, so the right partner needs to know her deeply and intimately, including the things she doesn’t want to show.
In general, this is a sign that lacks initiative, and due to the position of her Sun, this woman can see men in her life as weak and passive.
This will make her show initiative when in love, even when it is not the time, nor the place to do so.
It is almost as if she wants to show how liberal she actually is, but she suffers the exaltation of Saturn and is, in fact, quite turned to traditional values and appropriate behavior. She will go into extremes, on one hand showing her sexuality as if it was a given for everyone to see, and on the other being quite insecure in actual sexual encounters.
Her problem with self-esteem will become an unbearable issue with a partner that disrespects her in any way, and she might feel obligated to remain in this type of a relationship because of unconscious feelings of guilt.
The rule of Venus comes to focus here, for she will do anything in her power to fall out of love if a person she has feelings for is socially unacceptable for her standards.
For the Aquarius woman, it's through the bigger mind.
Her Sun's planetary ruler is Uranus, the higher octave of messenger Mercury.
He’ll hold out for as long as it takes for her to try and back down from her opinions. Taurus Woman and Cancer Man can just as easily as it can slip out the door before both realise.
They both pride themselves in holding onto things – ironically leading to one another taking this for granted.