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The combination of two led me to literally having no social life.

My social life was characterized of little conversations with my co-workers (which was my main source of social sanity if little convos with co-workers counts as having a social life…), super-delayed texts on my part between good friends cause sadly something always gotta give, limited to barely face-to-face interactions with like 2 of my close friends, limited time with family…

Just the way you are.a few of you may have noticed my minimal posting since the last half of last year, if you didn’t, it’s okay ha! And some of you may have noticed my random, sporadic moments of actually posting since the half of last year, if you didn’t, it’s okay too haaha.i just want to brag real quick and real loud about my main, named Jesus.but before that, a little background i haven’t been on as much on here as much as I would have liked to.That’s due to the fact I was studying fervently and if it wasn’t that I was maintaining this minimal wage job I have.I’ve also lately started facing the ways in which the teachings of “emotional purity”, (a la Josh Harris, the Ludys, and others) have damaged the part of my brain that makes healthy relationships function. You are considered damaged goods if you have fallen in love and had your heart broken.I define “emotional purity” in the same way that popular homeschool writers have: it is the idea of “guarding your heart”. It was Josh Harris in and the Ludy’s in several of their books that popularized the idea that everytime you fall in love or get “emotionally attached” to someone, you give away a piece of your heart. Pride because you are so much more spiritual than that poor girl over there who is crying because her boyfriend broke up with her. They made up laws that God never condoned, then patted themselves on the back for keeping them, while looking down on those who didn’t. Formula says “I will follow a God that I’ve put neatly in a box, to give me the desired results”.