The Internet is the newest location where adults who are intent on exploiting children can easily find victims to prey upon.The anonymity that the Internet offers makes cybersex crimes appealing to some individuals who believe they are protected from detection.different, does my spouse's involvement with cybersex give me grounds for divorce?I recently discovered that he's been involved in an ongoing "relationship" via the Internet. And I did, pretty much, and I was perfectly fine - until suddenly I wasn't.There were redundancy problems at work; my marriage was showing strains; and there was something large and unnameable missing from my life.This week, I invited sex tech consultant Lux Alpatrum to explain the culture around digital sex, and how technology is influencing intimacy. on i Tunes, listen on Sound Cloud, or subscribe via RSS. You can also find the entire collection of What's Tech?
To put it bluntly, can it be regarded as adulterous, does that mean that it gives the violated partner biblical grounds for divorce?
Every conversation was different, but each began the same way. If they were older, they'd disappear keenly aware that being seen in a chat room with a child wasn't a good look.
I would say, "Hello." And a strange somewhere across the world would respond, "a/s/l/? As an adult, I'm aware that while I was in AOL chats to talk about pop culture, a large chunk of the folks were just looking for digital hook-ups.
I told no one, immersed and isolated in my secret life. In moments of fleeting clarity, I wanted to understand what was happening to me. Was it just my marriage problems, or was there something deeper causing me to behave that way?
I met all sorts of people, from all over the world, older and younger, and each seemingly as desperate for a true connection as I. Should I be blaming my mother, or my – mostly absent – father for feeling that something was eternally missing? I was born to a woman that didn't much want children, and who fell foul to postnatal depression a good couple of decades before the term was even coined.