Unbeknownst to him or her, you provide this person with the ability to feel love. It doesn't actually disappear, but because of familiarity, it seems like the emotions aren't as strong anymore.To him or her, this phenomenon feels like the two of your are “drifting apart” because the initial connection you once had seems to have fleeted away.GOD: you disobeyed and blamed me for finding a wife for you. Ebele, if u were a guy, knowing women of nowadays, will u marry after one yr? my husband first asked to marry me after 6weeks and kept on at me until i relented and we married after just 5mths was an excellent marriage ,but my husband passed away two years ago he was only 31 and i often wonder if deep down he knew he would not have a long life and wanted to squeeze everything in.I will never find a wife for you, whenever you are ready show me the woman I will bless you. Just ask GOD to bless your marriage when you find her/him.whitelexi: Depends on which sex is involved. I personally think if you can not imagine marrying someone after 1yr then you must question why you are with them.
Are these guys patient or just stringing them along? As it turns out, there isn’t a lot of recent research on the courtship length prior to marriage.
You see, after all the games, a woman finally gets desperate to settle down while, for the man, its the beginning of life! and to the men who are saying that you must wait 3 years or so to see a womans true character 1st of all it works both ways and 2nd if you keep a woman hanging about for 3/4 years you are going to see a change in her coz she is annoyed at this waste of her time.
A woman will not mind settling with u in weeks sef, saying she's found the soul-mate that she's been searching for since the last 10-15 years, A man will want to date for at least 2yrs because women can hide their true behaviours, i've seen couples that dated for over 4yrs before anything oh True word bro!! I just came out of a longterm relationship (almost nine months) and i can attest to what you said. Some of us have relatives that we love but would rather not live with. marriage can be hard work and if you go into it looking for a perfect partner without fault then you shall be surely disappointed.
After a couple has been together for three years, they are probably serious enough to know whether or not they want to be together for the long run; yet, the relationship is new enough to end it fairly easily if they don't see it going anywhere.
I don't think couples that have been in love and together for three years are necessarily committed to each other.