In his private mind he judged Urquhart of trying to intimidate him.
She also points out that self-awareness is critical to personal growth, so knowing exactly which of your actions is making others uncomfortable will be worth it in the long run..
Think about it for a moment, how hard do you work at avoiding that person?
Now ask yourself this simple question: There is always some core reason for such strong feelings.
You can stand up for what you believe in, advocate for yourself and for others, and be sure that credit is given where it’s due.
But when does assertiveness cross over into the territory of being intimidating?