Many Christians choose to save sex until marriage due to religious and moral beliefs.
This can be hard, but it also sets the stage for greater intimacy in the long run.
There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.
Communication is first and foremost, and technology has aided in maintaining connectedness to those away from each other.
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YOU want to make things work but you just cannot figure out how to turn off that switch. Do you think that God doesn't look at ya'll playing around with the SAME destest?! SO stop being all sexual as you sing & dance a beyonce song to your guy. You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan. into your courting relationship and you find yourself having to . You WANT to live for GOD for real but you aren't convinced that you should break up with your boo. And let's clear this up-- if you cannot STOP having sex-- lasciviousness has crept into your relationship. so tell your little flesh to shut up & be determined to obey GOD. And for those of you who are smiling as you read this & thinking.. we have messed around but haven't gone the whole way"-- well, babygirl, I'm talking to YOU as well. Then, you wonder why you want to live it out & be sexual with your guy! sometimes, you want to EXPRESS it physically by kissing, rubbing, cuddling.. YOU don't want your relationships to mirror your past relationships but you can't quite figure out how to "court" or date .. You KEEP taking your past ways of thinking from the world.. but you can't hear because your vision is all clouded because you're in "love"-- So first step-- go to God-- MAKE sure that God is ok with you even staying with that person. My now husband and I didn't hang out LATE at each others house! We were never at each others home late at night PERIOD. YOU will desire whatever you put in front of you & give your attention to.. So he should keep his paws off your body that doesn't belong to either one of you until you get MARRIED. DO you know that those things plant seeds in your heart.