Rather than have a gradually deteriorating relationship, these somewhat needy people have roller coaster relationships with many emotional ups and downs.
For both the very needy and somewhat needy person, their fears of being rejected or being alone interfere with setting healthy boundaries that stabilize the relationship and promote equality.
At some point, we’ve all exhibited needy behaviors.
What’s worse, it can suddenly grip us from time to time in certain contexts, even if it’s not a constant characteristic, which is part of why feelings of neediness can be so scary, difficult and unpredictable to manage.
It can destroy romantic relationships, compromise professional opportunities, and contribute to a cycle of frustration, depression, and dissatisfaction. It can show up as desperation, nagging, and self-centeredness, or bundled with other mundane qualities like talkiness, clinginess or perfectionism.
Whatever the particular manifestation, every single guy knows what it feels like to be needy.
We are all emotionally needy to some degree in relationships — meaning simply that, during a difficult time, we need more emotional support than usual. It's when you find that you are emotionally needy that takes a toll on relationships and has consequences.
Because fixing this one problem can have massive repercussions across your life.
Why No One Likes a Needy Man It’s probably no surprise that neediness is a major attraction killer.
However, this often leaves their partner emotionally tapped out and overwhelmed by their neediness. And yet, anxious people do the very thing they fear the most will happen — they push their partner away.
Their behaviors are counterproductive, yet hard to stop doing in the moment.