The quicker they can tie themselves up with someone else is the faster they can feel ‘right’ again.
Particularly for marriages or long term relationships, they may be struggling with comprehending the ending or be worried about how they ‘look’.
I get so many emails asking me about whether to date someone who is separated, recently divorced, or even fresh out of a breakup that I wanted to tackle this tricky subject.
Despite the security and sense of identity traditional marriages provide, they enable men to neglect the particular areas of personal growth that separation and divorce forced them to face.So, you met a man online who is really cute and a lot of fun. He seems into you and ready to spend time together. Do NOT date men who cannot meet this basic criteria. Being in alignment regarding your dating agenda gives you a solid foundation to build on. Maybe he reveals some of the struggles from his on-going divorce. This is true no matter who he is or how good it COULD BE. You are dating him with all his problems and warts.As expected, women initiating divorce ultimately identify their spouse as the “true” initiator.The irony is that men, despite their own dissatisfaction are more likely to resist divorce.