Perhaps you’ve been on a few dates that haven’t worked out very well for you in one way or another.You’re just feeling really frustrated, like you want to bang your head against the wall, or escape on a relaxing vacation somewhere where you can forget about your current reality, and dreadful love life.guy/girl: "I really do care about you, but we've grown apart and I don't know if I'm in love with you anymore.I think we should consider taking a break, so I can have some time to myself to figure it out." (said in all honesty, with good intentions). guy/girl: "I really do care about you, but we've grown apart and I don't know if this relationship is what I want anymore.Each will express their frustrations and have a genuine desire to not go through the same pain again, and yet when I suggest that they take a temporary hiatus from dating and relationships, it’s crickets.Let’s get clear on what a dating and relationship hiatus is: It’s basically putting your romantic activities on pause so that you can take time to not only break a pattern but to also get to know you, so that when you do re-open your romantic doors, that you are coming from a healthier place.
Seriously, you can get a lot of stuff done when you’re not worried about romance.
You meet new people, you feel good about yourself, maybe you get laid.
But there are also times when you need to take a break from dating and hang out with yourself.
Think about that previous relationship that you happened to rush into that lead to a break-up or divorce. Taking a dating break will enhance your focus, and when you’re seeing clearer, you will inevitably make better dating decisions.
You can learn to ‘stick to your guns’, and start dating the woman that you truly desire, and who is the right fit for you!