And believe me, they are as different as the genders themselves.
We all have our own unique challenges related to the way we see and interact with the world around us.
During this early relationship phase, most guys are just smelling the flowers and trying to decide which one to pick or IF he wants to pick one.
Just because he has shown interest in you does not mean that he has forgotten about all the other women in his life.
If he begins to feel genuine affection for you, he may indeed delete his little black book, but it could take a while.
Thinking that he has immediately given up all his options is naive.
First things like the ‘first kiss,’ ‘flowers,’ and ‘our song,’ can be overrated.
Everyone wants to be loved and being part of a couple is still the societal norm that most people aspire to. Becoming too Possessive and Expecting Commitment Behavior Before a Commitment is Established. This behavior will make him think you are unstable.
In the quest to couple, dating rules are being relaxed and women especially are making some fatal mistakes that are keeping them in the dating pool longer. If you have just met what seems like a great guy and you've had three or four dates, please don't feel like you have the right to question his whereabouts, go through his phone or search his home. Slow it down and learn to control your emotions, because becoming too possessive may end the relationship before it starts.
Being authentic versus trying to be someone you think you should be is always the safest bet. Taking too much air time on the first few dates explaining to him why you don't need a man in your life.
Here are five reminders of what not to do in the presence of Mr. Sure, we don't need a man to be happy, but if you don't want one, why are you on the date in the first place?